I’m 30 now…

 I have been 30 for a few months now and I clearly have the urge to share some of my wisdom that I have learned from 30 awesome years of life. 

Each year of my life has been pretty awesome in one way or another. So life is pretty awesome then. I could add and subtract all the good and bad days if I really took the time but I won’t. The good days and the hope for more good days in the future is good enough for me. While I don’t neglect the negative effects of over optimism I choose to share with others a healthy hope that everyone’s lives can be awesome as well. 

It is valuable to find the balance that works for you and your health and happiness and try not to compare yourself to others too much. But don’t forget to treat your loved ones and your friends with kindness and respect. Tough love is part of love but that goes both ways so don’t take things personal. Everyone has something that they can teach you so never stop learning. It’s okay to be curious and to be ignorant just try to be honest and true. keep an open mind and a good heart not because you’ve been told it’s good but because you want it to be good. 

I find myself more times than not thinking to myself that I’m sure most of what I say sounds hypocritical and contradictory and even condescending and utopian or idealistic and many other cool words to describe something dumb. never be dumb enough to not believe in magic and miracles. I’m sure there’s more wisdom somewhere in me but I’m currently too lazy to think of more to be write at the current moment so I hope you enjoyed it so far  

Thank you for my listening or reading my thoughts. I hope y’all have good days ahead.